Getting an autism diagnosis in Bergen County without a year's wait
Practical steps to get an autism diagnosis for your child in Bergen County, NJ, using local providers, insurance, and early intervention systems.
Published · Bergen County, New Jersey
Why the wait happens and how to shorten it
In Bergen County, with 108 ABA providers registered and 45 towns having at least one provider in town, you might assume getting a diagnosis is fast. It is not always. Many families report waiting months for a diagnostic evaluation. The bottleneck is often the few specialists who accept certain insurance or are affiliated with large hospital systems. You can reduce that wait by knowing exactly where to call and what to ask for.
Start with your child's age: under 3 or 3 and older
New Jersey splits the system at age 3. For a child under 3, the New Jersey Early Intervention System (often called NJEIS) is your entry point. For a child 3 or older, you go through PerformCare, the single access point for the Children's System of Care. Both pathways can lead to a diagnostic evaluation, but the steps differ.
If your child is under 3
Call the New Jersey Early Intervention System. You do not need a doctor's referral. You can call directly. Ask for a developmental evaluation. This evaluation is free and does not require insurance. The evaluator will assess your child and, if concerns are found, may recommend a diagnostic evaluation for autism. The diagnostic evaluation itself may be done by a developmental pediatrician, a child psychologist, or a neuropsychologist. Early Intervention can help connect you to one. You can also seek a private evaluation while waiting. Many families do both.
If you want to go private, ask your pediatrician for a referral to a developmental pediatrician or a child psychologist who specializes in autism. In Bergen County, towns like Hackensack, Englewood, and Teaneck have multiple providers. Call the office and ask: "Do you accept my insurance? How far out are you scheduling diagnostic evaluations?" Be direct. If the wait is long, ask if they have a cancellation list or if you can see a different clinician in the same practice.
If your child is 3 to 21
Call PerformCare. They are the single point of entry for children ages 3 through 21 who may need behavioral health services, including autism evaluations. PerformCare will ask you questions and may schedule a Child and Adolescent Needs and Strengths assessment (CANS). This is not a diagnosis but a tool to determine what services your child might need. Based on the CANS, PerformCare can authorize a diagnostic evaluation. The evaluation itself is done by a provider in their network. Ask PerformCare for a list of evaluators near you in Bergen County.
You can also seek a private evaluation outside of PerformCare. Many families do this to avoid the wait. If you have private insurance, check your plan's provider directory for developmental pediatricians or psychologists who list autism diagnostic evaluation. In Bergen County, towns with multiple providers include Hackensack (12 providers), Montvale (9), Fair Lawn (8), and Englewood (6). Call and ask the same questions: wait time, insurance accepted, cancellation list.
Insurance and payment options
New Jersey requires most insurance plans to cover autism diagnostic evaluations. If you have NJ FamilyCare (Medicaid/CHIP), your managed care plan is one of these: Horizon NJ Health, Wellpoint, Aetna Better Health of NJ, or UnitedHealthcare Community Plan. Call your plan's member services number and ask: "How do I get an autism diagnostic evaluation for my child? Do I need a referral? Which providers in Bergen County are in network?" Write down the names and numbers.
If you have private insurance, call the customer service number on your card. Ask the same questions. Some plans require a referral from your pediatrician. Others do not. Know your plan before you call a provider.
If you do not have insurance or your insurance does not cover the evaluation, ask the provider if they offer a sliding fee scale or a self-pay rate. Some practices in Bergen County do. You can also contact PerformCare or the Early Intervention System for guidance, even if you are not eligible for their programs.
What to do while you wait
Waiting for a diagnosis does not mean you cannot start helping your child. If your child is under 3, Early Intervention can begin services like speech therapy or occupational therapy without an autism diagnosis. If your child is 3 or older, your school district may offer evaluations. Every school district in Bergen County, including Alpine, Bergenfield, Bogota, Carlstadt, Cliffside Park, Closter, Cresskill, Dumont, Edgewater, and Elmwood Park, is required to evaluate a child for special education if you request it in writing. You do not need a medical diagnosis to request a school evaluation. Write a letter to the director of special education in your district and say: "I am requesting a comprehensive evaluation for my child due to concerns about autism." The district must respond within a set time frame.
After the diagnosis: what comes next
Once you have a written diagnosis, you can use it to access ABA therapy. The diagnosis must be from a qualified professional (a developmental pediatrician, child psychiatrist, or licensed psychologist). Your insurance company may require a specific diagnosis code. Keep a copy of the report. If your child is under 21, you can contact PerformCare for help coordinating services. After age 21, the Division of Developmental Disabilities becomes the main agency. But for now, focus on the diagnosis.
Be persistent and flexible
There is no single guaranteed fast path. Some families get an appointment in a few weeks. Others wait months. The key is to call multiple providers, ask about cancellations, and consider traveling to a nearby town. Every town in Bergen County has an ABA provider within 7 miles, but diagnostic evaluators may be less evenly spread. Do not be afraid to call a provider in Hackensack even if you live in Alpine. The drive may be worth the shorter wait.
Keep a notebook with the date of each call, the person you spoke to, and what they said. This helps you track progress and avoid repeating yourself. And remember: you are not alone. Many families in Bergen County have done this before you. The system is complex, but it does work.
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